How Do You Do It?

How Do You Do It?
Not having sex may seem easy because it's not doing anything. But peer pressure and things you see on TV and in the movies can make the decision to practice abstinence more difficult. If it seems like everybody else is having sex, some teens may feel they have to do it, too, just to be accepted. Don't let kidding or pressure from friends, a girlfriend, a boyfriend, or even the media push you into something that's not right for you.
A couple can still have a relationship without having sex. The people who care about you should respect that deciding not to have sex is an important personal choice. You might not realize it, but most teens are not having sex.
Choosing to practice abstinence is an important decision, and you may have questions about making this choice or about other methods of birth control. Your doctor or nurse - or an adult you trust, such as a parent, teacher, or counselor - can help provide some answers.