Women are verbose

Women are verbose. They read the lines -- sometimes letter by letter, and oftentimes in between. What you say, notice and do, can reinforce her understanding of you and your perception of her. Whether she walks with womanly confidence, carries herself with girlish delight, exudes artlessness or glances away in tempting shyness, she will lap up honeyed words and bestow upon the giver her unfettered appreciation.


Wouldn’t you like to be on the receiving end of such sweet happiness and burgeoning confidence? All you have to do is notice her, vocalize your observations, and be sincere. You need to give to receive. Let’s get started.
The modern ladies’ man
Each woman is uniquely beautiful and worthy of being cherished. This thought is what separates the connoisseurs of women and the mere laymen. Every woman has that certain something that distinguishes her from everyone else. Picking out the details and acknowledging them is what will set you apart in her mind.

Think about it: What did your girl wear last night? What did she say? Did you notice the tilt of her head, the mischief she held in her eyes or the way she bit her lip? Any time you feel that visceral tug, the urge to muss and take, tell her why and how you feel as you do. Recognize those triggers and let her know what she does to you. She’ll feel like a sex kitten ready to purr at the stroke of your hands.
The art of appreciation
Maybe you noticed how the sun lights up her hair, or the motion of her hand tucking a curl behind her ear. You could have been stirred by the sound of her laugh or maybe you stared transfixed at the lines of her body. She may have taken extra care getting ready for you, and her clothes, hair, and makeup are looking extra sharp. It could be the luscious curves in those hip-hugger jeans, or the soft sweater that clings to her curves -- whatever it is that you’re noticing, tell her about it.

Now, how you tell her becomes important: Be aware of how body-conscious she is. If she doesn’t like her big behind and you do, don’t go smacking it saying, “Giddyup!” Do tell her how you feel about her curves, though. Or show her how those curves turn you on. In any observation and subsequent vocalization, you need to maintain your own identity and your own voice.

How to remark on her physical attributes
The uniqueness and spontaneity of your sentiment will signal to her your sincerity. You don’t want her to think your compliments are a ploy to get into her intimate graces, so change it up a little. Remark on her physical attributes as well as the nonphysical. Sometimes even the oddest turned phrases, when said with heart, come across with more impact than a safe trite and overused phrase.

Imagine those instances where a quiet lull in conversation emerges. Use that moment to your advantage and tell her something you see in her. A simple “You’re beautiful” can be elaborated upon. Make your focus go from the mere physical to the emotional and character-based observations.

You could comment on the beauty that draws you. Maybe it’s her kindness and giving nature or her compassion and humility that you like. It could be the way she thanked the waiter after he took her order or how she positively influences you. Though a woman can never tire of hearing about how she entangles you sexually, if she is struck by the simplicity of a comment on her nature, she will be ensnared by you.
botched compliments
Flippant, lazy, demi-compliments will speed you into the girlfriendless zone where foot-in-mouth disease runs rampant. Women know games and can perceive ulterior motives. Insincere compliments have a most damaging effect on her trust in you. If she can’t trust the words that you say, she will question from that day forth the sincerity of your words. The tone of your voice, your countenance and the words you use dictate her reception to them are all things she picks up on. For example, telling her she’s beautiful without making eye contact and with a monotone voice and roaming eyes will quickly earn you a mental wake-up slap from her.

Avoid the ugly compliments: These comments are so twisted and turned in delivery that a woman knows this man isn't thinking about what he's saying. She can tell he hasn’t had much experience with women because he lacks social graces. These awkward comments come out of insecure guys, so step up and get comfortable with the art of giving her positive reinforcement.
major pointers
1- Give her unexpected compliments/comments/observations. 2- Be observant, vocal and sincere. 3- Let it be known. Whenever and wherever; by action and word. For example, pick a safe spot to pull over while driving to kiss her or remark at her nice smile between a mouthful of dessert. 4- Be sensitive to her body-image issues. 5- Focus on nonsexual compliments to allay her worries about your motives.
time to get verbal
Women want the words and the actions and they want both to match on equal levels. You can do well for yourself and your girl by getting into a giving state of mind. Play her, pluck her, stroke her strings until she’s humming and vibrating under your fingertips. You’ll reap the more frequent and less self-conscious rewards of a happier, more comfortable and confident woman. After all, what goes around comes around.